Okwekubagiza(Self pity)

Embeera y’Obuntu ey’Okwekubagiza (the emotion of self pity)

Obugunjufu kikwata ku kumanya buvune obuyinza okuva mu mbeera ey’okwekubagiza oba okumanya engeri gy’okwataganyaamu embeera eno nga ebaddewo.

Embeera y’okwekubagiza eba mbeera ya gunsinze eva mu kulowooza nti teweemala (inadequacy) oba tolina ky’osobola kwekolera era okubeerawo kwo kutaataganya abalala. Embeera ya gunsinze era eva ku kulowooza nti okoze eky’ekivve ekitakolebwangako muntu mulala era ekitasobola kusonyiyibwa.

Era tuyinza okufuna embeera y’okwekubagiza bwe tuba tulina kye tugaanyi, tulimbye oba kye tukumpanyizza, bino byonna ne bituleetera okulowooza nti tukoze kya buswaavu, ne twennyika n’okwesaasira.

Okwekubagiza kuviirako embeera z’obuntu embi endala n’okulowooza nti tokyalina mugaso mu Ensi. Okwekubagiza kikosa obwongo bwo n’obulamu bwo okutwalira awamu, n’ofuna okulumwa omutwe, okukyankalana mu lubuto, n’obukoowu olumu, n’okutabuka obwongo. Okwekubagiza kikuleetera okutya okusalawo kyokka singa oba okufuze bulungi kikuyamba okukulaakuna mu neeyisa yo.

Embeera y’obuntu eno ekulowoozesa nti abalala tebafuddeyo ku mbeera y’obulamu gy’olimu oba gy’oyiseemu. Okwekubagiza kuziiyiza essanyu n’okunyumirwa okudda mu bulamu bwo. Okwekubagiza olumu kiva ku nkuza oba engeri gye wakuzibwamu etaakulaga nti obulamu bulimu ebiwonvu n’ebikko by’olina okuyitamu.

Abazadde oba abantu abatasengejja mu bigambo bye boogerera baana nga bakoze ensobi baviirako embeera eno. Eky’olulabirako omwana ayasizza essowaani, oba akoze ensobi endala, omuzadde n’amulaamiriza “mwana(gwana) ggwe tojja kubaamu magezi”.Kino kimulowoozesa nti obulamu bwe bwonna tebujja kubaamu kalungi wabula ebizibu byokka.